As I watched the preceding interview the other night, I grew more and more outraged. Have we, the people of the United States totally lost all reason? Have we lost the ability to judge between right and wrong? What is wrong with deporting criminal illegal immigrants?
The attorney defending Henry Sanchez Milian, the rape suspect in this interview, is callous, as he lays out his plan to accuse the victim, a fourteen year old girl, of falsely accusing the perpetrators of raping her. Instead, he cold-bloodedly states, the girl had consensual sex with these men. Would anyone with an ounce of sense actually believe that a fourteen year old girl would want to have sex with two men in the boy’s bathroom, during school hours?
Do you want to know what is equally disturbing? Since that interview, where is the outcry from enraged feminists jumping to the defense of this poor little girl? Wouldn’t you think that ALL women would be infuriated, knowing that this attorney intends to place the VICTIM on trial, in the place of the perpetrators?
Yet, instead of an outcry against this heinous act, and the abominable plans of the defense attorney to attack the young victim, people defend these two young criminals’ right to be here in this country. In fact, the school superintendent of Rockville, MD was actually offended by the many parents, who were upset with his school district for having these two men in the same class as fourteen year old children. He even went so far as to threaten the parents in an email, “While I know this tragic incident has become part of a national political debate, I want to remind community members that the lives of real students have been forever affected. While many have chosen to engage civilly in the conversation, far too many have crossed the line with racist, xenophobic calls and emails. MCPS is working with law enforcement to identify those who are making threats toward our students and schools. This behavior will not be tolerated in our community.”
Has he lost his mind? Should parents not be concerned? A child was raped in one of his schools by not one, but two illegal immigrants, one of whom was a legal adult, at the age of eighteen, and the other, who lacked being an adult by months. Perhaps Dr. Smith would better serve the public by protecting the lives of innocent children, rather than lecturing their concerned parents and accusing them of being racists and xenophobes, and threatening them for voicing their opinions. After all, the first amendment still stands!
Then, in Martha MacCallum’s interview, the seventeen year old perpetrator’s attorneys blamed President Trump’s vitriol for people’s disgust with his client and the other perpetrator. Really? Does it not seem logical that people are angry because these two criminals broke the law by illegally entering this country, and then they broke it once again, by raping a little girl?
Why is it so hard to understand that we are a sovereign nation of legal immigrants? Immigrants are welcome to enter our country legally. There are many legal immigrants who now live in this great land of ours, and they love our nation, and our nation loves them. They are here because they chose to obey our nation’s immigration laws, just as our forefathers did. Like every other sovereign nation, we welcome those immigrants who want to obey our laws.
However, those who choose to enter this country illegally are not welcome, because by doing so, they are breaking the law of the land. Can this country sustain all of the illegal immigrants who sneak into it? Should this country provide all of the rights and privileges that are afforded to our citizens and the legal immigrants and refugees that enter it? Does this sovereign nation not have the right to decides who enters into this land??? Let’s look at it another way…
Suppose someone broke into your home, and you caught him and called the police. When the police arrived at your home, they removed the intruder and took him away. A few days later, when you returned home from work, you discover your young daughter lying on the bathroom floor, weeping and crying out for you. Sobbing, she tells you that the intruder from the other night broke into your home and raped her.
Outraged, you once again phone the police, and when they arrive at your home, you ask, “Why did you set that intruder free? He raped my child.”
“I’m sorry this happened,” the officer replies, “but really, he had just as much right to come into this house as you do. Although he wasn’t born in this home and this family, doesn’t he have a right to live in a nice home?”
“Indeed he doesn’t,” you reply. “This is MY home, and MY family! I have a right to lock my doors and protect my family from ALL aliens who do not belong here. Furthermore, my daughter would never have been raped, if you had locked that criminal up, when you caught him the other night!”
“Sir, I’m sorry your daughter was hurt, but this man’s illegal entry into your home has nothing to do with her rape. Lots of women and girls are raped in many different places. Don’t be racist or xenophobic by not allowing anyone who wants to come into your home to enter, just because your daughter got raped this one time.”
Does this scenario seem reasonable? Of course not! It’s ridiculous – and yet, so are the many arguments and accusations being thrown at those who are against illegal immigration. I’ve written this post from a logical perspective, yet I’ve heard many liberals accuse people who believe this way of being inhumane, and even unchristian. Therefore, in my next post, I’ll address this issue from a biblical stance…
Please note ~ the following post deals with sexually explicit material that may be offensive to some, or may trigger others. However, my intent is not to offend or hurt, but to cast some light on a dark subject…
When the book came out, I was still working, and I remember many of my coworkers going on and on about “Fifty Shades of Grey,” and how good it was. Most would tell me how great it was, and then say, “But you shouldn’t read it, Cheryl. You wouldn’t like it.” Most of my coworkers knew that I was a minister of the gospel, and that I wouldn’t enjoy this kind of book. Most of my coworkers knew me well, yet I worked for a retirement facility, that employed more than two hundred people, so there were others, who were only casual acquaintances.
I remember this one woman who worked the evening shift. She usually came on duty just as I was preparing to leave for the day. One evening, before I left for the day, she stopped by the office, where I was working, to see if I knew where our boss was. After telling her, she turned to leave, so she could finish administering medications to the residents she was caring for, but suddenly, she spun back around, facing my office mate and me again, as she asked, “Do you read?”
“Well,” I jested, “we’re not illiterate.”
Laughing at my comment, the woman gushed, “Then you just have to read ‘Fifty Shades of Grey. It’s so good. It’s a love story with a little ‘soft porn.'”
After hearing so many people rave about this book, I was curious to know what the big deal was, and why so many people were talking about it. Therefore, I went online, and looked to see what it was about. Needless to say, I was shocked. After reading an overview of the book, I wondered how so many good people call this book good? Though it’s been touted as a “love story,” nothing could be further from the truth.
I really never thought too much about “Fifty Shades of Grey,” after that, until the movie was released, on Valentine’s Day, and yet again, people were boasting about this “must see” movie event, which raked in more money at the box office than any other movie has ever done. Numerous people, from all over, flocked to see this “romantic film.” Really??? Give me a break! I’ve remained quiet about the subject until now, but enough is enough, and if I don’t share what’s on my heart about this, I just might explode.
Therefore, let’s just call a spade a spade. While I haven’t read this book or seen the movie (nor do I intend to), I still know enough about it to comment on it. This serial (“Fifty Shades of Grey” is the first installment in a “Fifty Shades” trilogy.) is neither a love story, nor a romance. Hence, in order for us to determine if “Fifty Shades of Grey” is truly a love story or not, we must first know what love really is. To discover what love is, let’s look at the best definition of love that has been revealed to man…
4 Love is patient and kind. Love is not jealous or boastful or proud5 or rude. It does not demand its own way. It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged.6 It does not rejoice about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out.7 Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through every circumstance.
Now, let us look at “Fifty Shades of Grey,” in light of this definition… As we examine the relationship between the two main characters, Chrisian and Ana, it becomes obvious almost immediately, that there is no patience or kindness between the two. As Christian treats Ana as his personal sex slave, there is not romantic or loving about their relationship. It is both cruel and hurtful. These two characters are involved in an unhealthy relationship, instead of a healthy and loving one, where both people treat one another with respect and dignity. This is an abusive relationship where Christian domineers Ana.
I must say that I am really surprised that more Christians have not spoken out against this novel/movie, and I’m also surprised that most women’s rights groups seem to be uncharacteristically silent on the subject. Such an unhealthy relationship should be denounced for implying that women actually enjoy being tied up, beaten, and verbally, sexually and physically abused.
4 … Love is not jealous or boastful or proud5 or rude…
Love is not jealous… The main character, Christian, is jealous of other men who are a part of Ana’s life. Now, I’ll grant you that there are some women who think it would be nice if their boyfriend or husband was jealous of other men in their lives, but that’s because they’ve never actually experienced the jealousy of a lover.
Jealousy is ugly. Those who are jealous are mistrustful and resentful. Because resentment can quickly grow into hatred, it also often leads to violence. Many times, when a man is jealous of another man who is involved in the life of a woman he cares about, that jealous rage will be taken out on the woman that he supposedly cares about. Does this sound like love to you?
Love is not boastful. Someone who truly loves someone else will not flaunt his/her advantages to the one that he/she loves. The one who truly loves will not ever want to make his/her beloved feel as though he/she is unworthy.
Likewise, the one who truly loves, will not allow his/her pride to enter his/her relationship. The partner who truly loves, will be willing to humble him/herself to the other person. The one who loves will be willing to submit to the wishes of his/her beloved, just as the beloved will also be willing to do. True love is a partnership, in which both parties are willing to give 100% to their relationship. If only one party is willing to do so, then there is no relationship, for a relationship requires two people.
Love is not rude. Love would not even suggest that one partner submit to being tied up, whipped, gagged or sexually abused. Love understands that these actions constitute rape, which is a violent act committed against someone. Rape is not fun or sexy. It is extremely damaging and harmful to the victim, long after the act has occurred. Indeed, most people say that rape is not a sex act, but an act of violence. Violence is not love.
5 or rude. It does not demand its own way. It is not irritable, and it keeps no record of being wronged.
Love does not demand its own way. Women, girls, men and boys, hear me now. Love does not demand its own way. If someone truly loves you, he/she will not demand or insist that you participate or allow him/her to sexually abuse or exploit you. If this person truly loves you, he/she will accept it when you say, “No.” If the person you loves demands that you participate in sexually deviant acts, (any sexual act that is not condoned in the bible), even after you’ve said, “No,” then he/she does not love you.
If the person who claims to love you becomes angry or violent because you have told him/her, “No,” they are not treating you with love. If the person begins to list all of the times you’ve failed to do what he/she wanted you to do, this person is not acting in love. Instead, he/she is acting selfishly, which is the polar opposite of love.
6 It does not rejoice about injustice but rejoices whenever the truth wins out.
If the person who claims to love you takes pleasure in hurting you, (physically, sexually or emotionally), he/she is rejoicing about an injustice that has been done to you. This is NOT love. It is not fun. This is cruel and harmful to you. If the person you are in a relationship with does not rejoice in the truth of these words that I’ve written, then he/she does not truly love you.
Now, I’d like to share a few words with those of you who read the book and/or went to the movie, 50 Shades of Grey… How would you feel if your daughter, your sister or perhaps, even your mother was involved in this type of relationship? Would you talk to her about it? Would you worry for her safety? Would you worry about her emotional stability?
Or would you find it tantalizing? Would you think it was exciting and sexy? Would you encourage her to go ahead and do it, if she asked for your advice? Would you want her to tell you all about it for your pleasure?
If you would find it disturbing for your beloved daughter, sister, or mother to be involved in this type of relationship, then why would you take pleasure in a book or movie that celebrates this type of behavior? Suppose your daughter, sister or mother, knowing that you had read and enjoyed this book, shared that she was involved in a relationship like this? How would it make you feel? How could you argue against your loved one taking part in this?
Suppose your son, brother or father was involved in this type of relationship. Would you feel proud of him? Would you trust your daughter to be alone with him?
Maybe you’ve read what I’ve written here, and you think I’ve carried it to far. I don’t think so. This needs to be discussed. We need to examine our hearts, for none of us should take pleasure in these things. If this is something you wouldn’t want your loved ones to be involved in, then ask yourself why you’re involving yourself in it. For when you purchase books such as these or go to see this movie, you’re condoning it, and welcoming it into your own life.
Perhaps you’re angry at what I’m sharing. I can live with that. For the fact is, that there are young women, wives and girls who are involved in sick relationships like this, and they would give anything to get out of it, yet they are trapped. And then there are those who will copy what the movie or the book showed, and they will end up raping and hurting other women, and feel perfectly justified in doing so. After all, the movie implies that women like to be treated this way, and every man and woman who bought the book, or a movie ticket also signified this was okay. How would you like it if your spouse or boyfriend treated you like Christian treated Ana? By taking pleasure in this book and/or the movie with him, haven’t you sent that message to him???
Do you think I’m exaggerating the dangers of this movie? If so, I urge you to read this newspaper article taken from the Chicago Tribune on February 24, 2015, by clicking the link below:
Finally, I urge you, therefore, my beloved readers, to do something that many, especially those within the Christian community, are often reluctant to do. Talk with your children, both male and female, and let them know how much God values their lives. Let them know that they are worth too much to devalue themselves as someone’s sex slave or whipping boy/girl. Make sure they know how much God loves them, and how much you love them, and let them know that they will always have a safe place to come to, if they do get involved in an abusive relationship.
And if you, my beloved reader, have taken pleasure in this perverted story, you are not so far away from God’s mercy and grace that you cannot be forgiven. You have only to repent and confess your sins to Him.
9 But if we confess our sins to Him, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all wickedness.
Hallelujah! I really look forward to Sharing the Love with one of my fellow bloggers each month, but I have to tell you, July 1 came really fast. I’ve known who the Lord wants me to showcase for a while, but life has a way of slipping in and throwing us off course. I’m really struggling with pain today, and your prayers are deeply appreciated. 🙂
In the meantime, I’m really excited to introduce July’s featured blog and author to some, and to present her to others, so without further ado, (drumroll please), I present CHRISTian ~ poetryby deborah ann. Deborah is truly a woman with a heart for Jesus, and her love for Him is evident in every poem that she writes, not for her own glory, but for His. I know this blesses the Lord, and I’m certain that’s why He wanted me to Share the Love with her. Continue reading Share the Love – July 2013→
Your “two cents” is exactly that – your opinion on the topic posted – it may take any form that you find most expresses your point of view: a quote, a motto or saying, an essay or article by you or attributed to someone else, a piece of music, a song, a video, a work of art, photograph, graffiti, drawing or scribble. As with most things, the choice is yours…
This fortnight’sTwo Cents Tuesday Challengetheme –Toys– suggests that everybody’s got their something… ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
My daughter and now, both of her daughters have one toy that they cling to. For my daughter, it was her “Doll-doll”. I remember how she brought this rag doll with her everywhere we went. She couldn’t sleep without her “Doll-doll,” and it was crisis time if we visited someone and accidentally left “Doll-doll” behind. There was such weeping and wailing. The same holds true for her oldest daughter, who has her “Puppy” and for her youngest, who has her “Bun-bun”.
I often wondered how it is that they formed such an attachment to stuffed animals or a rag doll, but then, I look in the toy room, where the grandchildren come to play, and I see Harvey. Just thinking about Harvey puts a smile on my face. Suddenly, I realize that the apples didn’t fall too far from the tree. Continue reading Two Cents Tuesday – Toys→
Words cut deeper than the sharpest razor or sword, piercing a person’s heart, and severing his/her very soul, killing his/her as the life just drains out of him/her like blood gushing from an open wound…
Wanda sat in the middle of her bed, trembling and hyperventilating as she rocked back and forth. Her stuffed animals and school books were strewn all over the floor, where she had thrown them all in a fit of rage when she got home from school. “I can’t take it anymore,” she said to herself, as the tears that she’d held inside all day began to pour down her cheeks in a steady flow, mingling with the snot that freely flowed from her nose, as though the floodgates had been opened. Grabbing a tissue from her nightstand, Wanda blew her nose, though the tears and the snot continued to flow unchecked.
Greetings, my beloved readers! It’s time once again to Share the Love with another great blog. I was really excited when the Lord placed it on my heart to feature this month’s blog, Prayers and Promises, authored by Diana Rasmussen.I was excited when the Lord placed Diana’s blog on my heart because Diana is a woman who has been through hell and back, and just like Shadrach, Meshach and Abednego, her clothes aren’t even scorched, nor does she smell of the smoke from the fire. Continue reading Share the Love – June 2013→
1 Large crowds followed Jesus as He came down the mountainside. 2 Suddenly, a man with leprosy approached Him and knelt before Him. “Lord,” the man said, “if You are willing, You can heal me and make me clean.”
3 Jesus reached out and touched him.“I am willing,”He said.“Be healed!”And instantly the leprosy disappeared. 4 Then Jesus said to him,“Don’t tell anyone about this. Instead, go to the priest and let him examine you. Take along the offering required in the law of Moses for those who have been healed of leprosy. This will be a public testimony that you have been cleansed.”
To understand the beauty of this passage of scripture, we need to understand the ugliness of leprosy in biblical times. To fully comprehend the magnitude and glory of this passage, we must first come to grips with the shame and disgrace of leprosy…
Leprosy was very common in biblical times — much more so than it is today, although people still get the disease even in this day and age. Leprosy is an infectious disease that causes horrible disfiguring skin sores and nerve damage. Some leprosy sores look like large, painful open blisters or ulcers, but they are not painful, even when pricked with a needle, because the person with leprosy has lost their sense of feeling where those sores are. Still other manifestations of leprosy may have pale spots or even what looks like ringworm with a loss of feeling. Lepers (those with leprosy) may have thick, square earlobes, thick eyebrows, and deformed hands and feet. Continue reading Words of Jesus – I Am Willing→